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Strength….. part 2

28th October 2014 | 0 Comments

Not really a followup to the last post entitled “Strength”, but that’s what this is all about ——————————————————————————————————– Mara says that I’m the strongest person she knows, and that is a big part of her love for me I don’t often feel that I’m very strong, I’m me not because I feel strong, but because […]

why is this getting harder?

23rd October 2014 | 0 Comments

This may come out as a victim puke, so be it, and fuck you if you have a problem with it Why does it feel like being trans is getting harder? Last year I’d have fucking strangers come right up to me and ask me about my gender, I knew it was wrong of them […]

What is my flavour of trans?

18th August 2014 | 0 Comments

I read a post today on Facebook that rubbed me the wrong way, as you’ll see later on in this piece, I think I may have interpreted it incorrectly as it triggered the “if you don’t see trans like XYZ, then you’re doing trans wrong”. This is an issue in our “community”…. I use quotes […]


28th May 2014 | 0 Comments

Something I’ve noticed these past few weeks, my memories of him are fading no…. not of my ex boyfriend, that’s not the “him” that I’m referring to… although those memories are a lot less pervasive these days. He goes through my head at least once a day, probably more, but the thoughts don’t carry the […]

An anniversary of sorts….

2nd April 2014 | 0 Comments

So I missed my one year mark on the blog, I was super busy on the night of the 27th, moved some stuff into the new condo, got home super late. I had written something the following day, expecting it to be my next post, my little one year celebration post, but I wasn’t feeling […]


4th February 2014 | 0 Comments

In our world, and by that I mean the world, the reality, that trans people live within, there is a group of people called “chasers”…. or “tranny chasers” if you want to be crude about it. Predominantly men (at least in my experience), who are attracted to pretty much only trans women, for whatever reasons […]


22nd November 2013 | 0 Comments

I was trying to write a title which made people sing that David Bowie song, Changes…. as in… ch ch ch ch chhaaaanges! anyways… One question that I get often from interested folks is, quite simply, what are all the changes that your body and personality have gone through since starting hormones?, how long did […]

Being Visible

10th August 2013 | 0 Comments

I touched upon this in a tangential way on my last post, but another thing that has been on my mind a lot, and also made an impact on my time at this (and the first) festival. being visibly trans especially when you’re camping in the woods and don’t really get to look your best… […]

Two down, rest of my life to go

3rd July 2013 | 0 Comments

I’m going to start this entry with my new favorite picture: Isn’t it freakin awesome!!!!!, and thankfully, this happens to be the picture on my new work pass, Dawn’s new work pass :D. Two days now down, and so far so good. Overall the reaction is very positive, lots of smiles, congratulations, and compliments on […]

I’m sorry

27th June 2013 | 0 Comments

It’s been a very emotional week or so, not entirely sure when it started, but it crept up on me. I only noticed when I look back that I’ve shed tears almost each day. Most of the time I’m proud to admit, they are tears of happiness. I look back over my past, the struggles […]