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Dawn’s first day out….

7th April 2013 | 0 Comments

no, this isn’t a post in which I reminisce today, in all honesty, was Dawn’s first day out but how you ask, after all, we’ve seen the pictures, you have been out and about…. unless…. this is all a ruse!!! (dum dum dummmmmmmmm) no, of course the pictures are real. Let me explain. I had […]

what a day…..

4th April 2013 | 0 Comments

Tears, anger, hurt, remorse, regret, you know, just a regular Thursday at Dawn’s place…. Lots of stuff happened today, first time I felt anger (fleeting) towards Becca since this all happened, and I think it was a similar event for her as well, but we managed to talk, and not hug, and we tried to […]

it had to happen…..

2nd April 2013 | 0 Comments

Becca and I are through, in reality, me taking my first spiro and applying my first Estradiol patch was the final nail in the coffin, it just took two more days to actually come out. We spent the entire day on Friday talking, crying, questioning, we probably got six month of closure taken care of. […]


28th January 2013 | 0 Comments

I’m a liar, a big stinky fat poopoohead liar there, I said it all my life I’ve extolled the virtue of telling the truth, I’ve counseled people to stop hiding needs from their partners, their loved ones, the world, and since I do kick quite a bit of ass as an armchair therapist, the ones […]

Happy 2013!!!!

4th January 2013 | 0 Comments

Hey, look at that, the world didn’t end. And there was much rejoicing…. yaaaayyyyyyyy And now for something completely different. I have two competing things bouncing around in my head right now that I’d like to get out on (virtual) paper, so of course, I’m going to first talk about something completely unrelated to both […]

One out of four aint bad!

19th December 2012 | 0 Comments

Well wouldn’t ya know it, good old dad pulls out the stops and surprises me. I just got a response back from my awkward outing-myself email that I sent him, and to paraphrase: – no big deal, do what you want / need to do, its your life – if you want to talk about […]

Well, it’s official!

15th December 2012 | 0 Comments

I am a transsexual. Well, duuhhhh, no kidding you may say. But see, its different now, I have been “approved” as an actual transsexual by my therapist, in that, on my next visit, I will have my papers. I kinda feel like I graduated from something 😛 A little over a year ago I had […]


14th November 2012 | 0 Comments

What am I getting myself into? My emotions have been all over the place lately, understandable sure, but its still a tough ride. I’m switching between “what the fuck are you doing?!” and “I want my anti-androgens / injections / name change now noW nOW NOW NOW!!!!!”. I’m picturing myself as a woman, well, as […]


7th November 2012 | 0 Comments

Even through all of this crazy stuff that has been going on, I’ve still been telling people about me. My day to day friends all know, and so far have all been pretty great about everything. I spent a day out with an old girl-friend shopping, first time she had met Dawn, and to say […]