Archive for the ‘ passing ’ Category

a funny thing happened yesterday….

15th February 2015 | 0 Comments

So after a friends birthday dinner last night we all headed to this dance club / bar (never been to these types of places so I don’t even know how to categorize it) to have a few and do some dancing. It was 90’s night that night, so even though it wasn’t my type of […]

Mirrors….. passing….. thoughts

17th July 2014 | 0 Comments

I glance at myself in a mirror, I still see a shadow on my face where the beard used to be. I approach the mirror, put my face a few inches away from it, puff out my lip. I hunt for the dark hairs, the survivors, the stragglers…. they’re nowhere to be seen. I pull […]


28th May 2014 | 0 Comments

Something I’ve noticed these past few weeks, my memories of him are fading no…. not of my ex boyfriend, that’s not the “him” that I’m referring to… although those memories are a lot less pervasive these days. He goes through my head at least once a day, probably more, but the thoughts don’t carry the […]

Being Visible

10th August 2013 | 0 Comments

I touched upon this in a tangential way on my last post, but another thing that has been on my mind a lot, and also made an impact on my time at this (and the first) festival. being visibly trans especially when you’re camping in the woods and don’t really get to look your best… […]


11th September 2012 | 0 Comments

I had to talk about this at one point didn’t I? Do I like the way I look en femme?, yes, in fact, I love the way I look en femme, I think I’m classy, sexy when I want to be, I know how to dress and move and don’t walk like a trucker (that… […]